Why "Save Marriage" is not in our priority , It's always learned in the CRISIS MODE?

What are the three common things one finds on the internet?

First - How to earn money fast.

Second - How to lose weight fast.

Third - How to create a website using WordPress (it really goes back to First! But it's at least about learning something new)

Everyone is looking to become successful. And these are the terms in which success has been defined by our society. Earn money, look good and have a skill. This enables one again to earn money.

But what is success?

Well... it's not achieving just these three; there are three more things. That is according to The Great Pandit Vishnu Sharma.

Six things, in the order he said are:

1. Health

2. Knowledge

3. Money

4. Great Life Partner

5. Great Kids

6. Great Friends

See? Success lies more in relation, then money, and then health (health… mind you, not just good looks!)

So now the question is, are you successful?

It's one’s duty to try to live the fulfilling life according to one’s wish. This is one’s Dharma. To be successful without hurting anyone or as less as possible we are hurting someone, somewhere or something just by our mere presence. But each one has right to pursuit of the success as one sees fit.

Let's start with Relations. The most important and fundamental relation in the nucleus family is marriage. A successful and happy marriage is the basis of success of the individual and of the society at large.

In America, 50% of first marriages fail. This is not all, 60% of second marriages fail too. This is very a scary and eye opening statistic. According to the American Psychology Society, divorce is known to be more PAINFUL than death of a close family member. So isn't it strange and sad that so many people go through divorce despite that? After all, they got married willingly and knowing the person well enough.

It happens because there isn't enough stress in our society in formal training on marriage. There isn't any formal or informal training in general on how to nurture one’s marriage and relation. So when one faces challenges in marriage he/she isn't prepared to handle it. One doesn't know how to SAVE THE MARRIAGE!

There appears to be implicit assumption that the knowledge of how to nurture a relation comes naturally. Well it doesn't! Everyone learns it the hard way (or some wise ones by learning through other's marriages - if they are lucky to have good examples around!)

Marriage is CRITICAL to the foundation of any society; it's needed to be protected. And personally, when a DIVORCE happens, everyone connected to that gets HURT - not just the couple and kids (if unfortunately involved) and couple's friends and families. Everyone is dragged in it. And more importantly, it doesn't END! Divorce never ends ---- because you are always "Divorced" after a divorce. Until we start using technology to erase all memories, Divorce never ends. And even after we get the technology to erase divorce memories... Divorces will still stay on.

Happy person is irresistible to Ex Partner.

So Divorce is a bad idea, an evil ---- unless of course - the extreme exceptions of domestic violence and some crazy stuff out there! Check out some tips on saving marriage.

There is an attempt to streamline training on nurturing, sustaining and surviving a marriage through informal professional programs. Most of these professional programs available on internet are good. These programs demand some work on part of the person who wants to save the marriage; these programs also help a person reflect on where the individuals were wrong. Those usually are picked up in emergency situations though. So that’s the hard way of learning. But at least there is a way now. Thanks to the internet.

Most of these products teach one how to be Self Sufficient for Happiness. Such self-sufficient person becomes irresistible to one’s partner. Everyone wants to be with a HAPPY PERSON!

So How to earn money fast ? Or instead - How about How to save my marriage ?

In my previous post, we talked about why three things matter the most

First - How to earn money fast
Second - How to lose weight fast
Third - How to create website using Wordpress


Well.... Its not three, there are 6 important things in life... well, important because that's the measure of success - According to this Great Pandit Vishnu Sharma

Six things are - 1. Health 2. Knowledge 3. Money 4. Great Life Partner 5. Great Kids 6. Great Friends

In that order.

So are you successful ? Well I am.. but just want to be more more more... successful. Greed you say ?
Nah.. its my duty to try and live the fulfilling life according to my wish.. my Dharma... without
hurting anyone ! Or to be fair..hurting as less as possible - because just by mere presence we are
hurting someone/somewhere/something.

You eat  ? You Sleep ? You walk ? You Breath.. so you are hurting someone/something/somewhere.

Ok - so target is to achieve these 6 things by hurting as less as possible.

I can do that. Right ?

So Health - yes we have that covered - How to Lose weight Fast !

Knowledge - yes we have that covered - How to create website using Wordpress - well its a very
handy knowledge, don't you think ? You won't go hungry if you know how to create website using wordpress.

Third Money - yes - we are going to talk about How to earn money fast. So we got the three
covered.

So once you achieve all of those - are you successful ? Wait.. you got to have great relations !

So let's start there I say.

This is the statistics of Divorce in America. Scary !

Divorce is known to be more PAINFUL than death of a close family member... Its not what I am
saying, its what the "EXPERTS" are saying.

So isn't it strange that so many people go through divorce, after getting married willingly, and
knowing the person so well ? Sad and strange both.

I think the problem is precisely not knowing how to SAVE YOUR MARRIAGE !

They don't teach you that in school or by your parents or your family, you think it comes natural. Well it doesn't... everyone learns it the hard way ( or some smart ones easy way.. but learning about other's marriages - if they are lucky to have good examples around ! )

Marriage is CRITICAL to the foundation of any society, it's needed to be protected.

And personally, when a DIVORCE happens... everyone connected to that gets HURT - not just
the couple and kids (if unfortunately involved) and couple's friends and families. Everyone is
dragged in it.

And more importantly, it doesn't END ! Divorce never ends ---- because you are always "Divorced"
after a divorce. Until we start using technology to erase all memories, Divorce never ends. And even
after we get the technology to erase divorces memories.. Divorces will still stay on.

So Divorce is not a good idea ---- unless of course - the extreme exceptions of domestic violence and some crazy stuff out there !

So we are going to share as many videos as possible which will talk about How Do I Save my Marriage  - go check it out -
Some are people who made videos who are trying to sell products, books, videos & programs.

But those are not so expensive - some for 30$ others for 45$ or so -- -its a small investment in terms
of money. But these programs demand some hard work on part of person who wants to save marriage

Pick one and recommend it to your friends/family who may be going through stressful marriage - here are some -- They will definitely talk about how to stop divorce, how to get your ex back how to restore faith in marriage ..and everything the page lists all the videos - some of those talk about marriage - please go through. Checkout their FREE Videos on Marriage Advice.

Most of these products teach you how to be Self Sufficient for Happiness. Once you achieve that goal, you become irresistible to your partner. Everyone wants to be with HAPPY PEOPLE !

Happiness is state of mind achieved with some faith in some higher power.. of course there is higher power how else do you explain anything ! There is no end to the explanation...

There are some links to some such products too... yes yes.. Those are links from which I might earn a dollar or two .if you decide to buy.... but so what ? That shouldn't stop you from enjoying their free videos and pick something that you might like... you don't really have to buy it. And make me richer by few dollah  - what's wrong with that ? ;-)

Enjoy the weekend... next I think we should be talking about Kids ? Or we can talk about money... share comments.. its not that we will leave only a blog per topic (i.e. 6 blog posts ! haha ) .. no no. There will be more... coming soon.

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Fine so you want me to blog... Good...

So we start with a Story ? Long long time ago there was this cool dude... really cool. Take it from me... he was cool.

At least that's what he thought.... Every time he tried something new... first he fell... fell hard... very embarrassed .. he got up... brushed aside the dust from you know where... and went hiding...

He explained to himself - it happens to all - but wait... why did it happen to me ? Let me try again... big and bad... he woke up next day.. went again at it... again... errr...

How many times am I going to embarrass myself ? He thought... but this time.. at least i fell on the side... aaha.. so I am getting better at it... but how do I avoid falling on side You ask ?

Hmm... lets take a break... or..wait... what if ? .... let me try that. He was laughing ! Of course he was
.. but wait, what is his name again ? He was LAUGHING AT ME ! ..... Me.. so me something.. he
I dont know... who cares about 'I don't know' ?
So focus....

Hmm.. here is is... Go figure - website about popular videos Fresh Videos and Cool Videos   -

So what are the three important things in a FAT, RICH, and Not so SMART person's life ? 1. How to lose weight FAST ! 2. How to Make Money (MORE!!! MORE !!!) FAST ! --- now fast is important !
Very important !
Cause with the compromise on health.. he did EARN SOME MONEY... well not SOME.. quite a bit !
But he wants MORE ! More Money ! And FAST....

How good is the money, if he has to carry the "weight" around... if you know what I mean... so go
the second important thing.. weight it's first... hmm who cares.. both are important.

How to lose weight FAST ?

That's priority ... now I am not going to SWEAT to death to lose weight. Give me an easier way.. of course I have some money to throw around.

And.... of course.. my last frontier ! How to create my own Website ...

With that... I would have reached the point ... and then its time to ride some bike and blog about that... on this site.... it's a TODO For me.. one day !

One day.. but for today... Here's my opening blog. Wonderful ... no ? (Go ahead guess where I Am from !! :-) :-))